All too many of us are trained to be mostly WORLDLY people , nationalistic , patriotic , capitalistic , materistic , etc.... it's been all about our own personal self development . . . kind of people, with little focus on the actualities of how our life will effect others , or how we can develop more as a contributing part of society  . Very few of us really have had good training on how to be Christian people , and a good marriage mate , this makes for a very small group of people to choose fro …